Sunday, May 28, 2017

Déjà vu

Once upon a time... Exactly 20yrs back... They did it all for me while I was drifting through the process.
Filling up the application
Posting them
Everything everything everything... 

If he hadn't dropped me at the examination center, I really am not sure whether I would have appeared for the exam. But then... I cleared the exam & I got into engineering. 

20yrs later... I went through a similar situation. This time the enlightened one took care of everything. He went out of the way to make things happen. And me... I was just doing stuffs because everything was delivered right into my lap!

Well... Thanks to his efforts........... Yeah! I cleared.... :-) 

When they say do your Karma, it is interesting to know how very little they need from us... :-) 

Thank you... :-) 

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Thursday, May 25, 2017

Boudoir

She {confused} : But why?
Me : Because I knew I could handle it.









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Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Set this in Stone

Kiddo {to her God mother during her vacation}: I will miss Amma. I need her scoldings.

For some strange reasons...................................




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Condused!!

He : I am sick & tired of your shit.

Comes from the man who wouldn't even know where I live, or which office do I go to.

Yeah.... I am as confused as any one
who knows me.





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Monday, May 22, 2017

Chirakala Abhilasham!!

He : Finally your longest running idea materialized. Happy for you. You had the guts to act on it. 

Me too dear... Me too..... 








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Friday, May 19, 2017

Mash up

He: I don't know if you are a school girl or a teenager or a woman. You are a mashup of everything. 









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Sunday, May 7, 2017

Time for Detox

This is something I did for a girl community in FB. Copying here for my future reference... And maybe yours too.... O:-) 


With the holidays at its peak, it would be a good time start with a week of detox program. This is primarily a fruit & vegetable diet. If not anything, this routine will help us flush out all that excess oil from the beef roast & pork curry. This can be considered as an experiment to reset your system. 

This is a toned down version of detox programs any leading holistic healing center would have.

Luke warm water/Black tea/Green tea + lemon/honey/cinnamon 30-40 mins choice of workout Breakfast - smoothiesPre Lunch snacks - Fruits/Cucumber+Carrot Lunch - Veggies/saladsEvening snacks - Fruits (Mango/Water melon/Musambi)Dinner - Soups Optional 30-40mins workout Triphala - 1 tsp with luke warm water


The simplest way to get toxins out of our system is - sweating it out. Including some basic exercise routine will take care of this. Sinus can be cleared with the help of steam. Those who are comfortable with Neti kriya(also called Nasyam), can try that too. Cleansing of the stomach & intestines are done with the help of Thriphala churnam. There are other ayurvedic medicines too. You may choose based on your comfort. 


Early to bed, early to rise 

Generally all holistic healing system encourage us to start the day early. Planning ahead helps in finishing your day early & go to bed early. 





Things to Avoid 

Fermented items - Try to avoid all varieties of fermented items during this period - idly, dosa, appam, bread, curd, aerated drinks, etc. 
Artificial sweeteners - Big NO to white sugar. You may substitute with natural sugar sources like honey or jaggery. 


Some Breakfast option 

Smoothies are the best to swallow down. You can bring in variety in taste by trying different permutations & combinations of fresh fruits. Some of the things (not all in one go) that goes into my breakfast smoothies will be - 

Smoothies 
     flax seeds
     dried nuts 
     sunflower seeds or any such you can place your hand on
     oats
     dried dates or any such fruits you like 
     chilled/frozen banana 
     other fruits optional 
     avocado 
     honey/jaggery 
     milk/lemon/tender coconut water (any one) 
          for flavor change try almond milk, coconut milk (may add coconut as is while grinding) 
Oats with fresh fruits 

Some Lunch options 

     (i) salad option - peanuts, carrot, tomato, capsicum 
     garnish with lime & corriander leaves 
     (ii) Steamed veggies - carrot, cauliflower, mushrooms, capsicum, beans, anything of your choice ( 3-4 types of veggies would suffice) 
     May toss in roast garlic or ginger for flavor 
     (iii) Fruit bowl - try with salt & pepper 
     (iv) salted oats with sprouts thoran (roast the coconut mixture in hot tawa without oil, no need of kaduku vara either) 
     Still hungry? Have butter milk/sugar cane juice

What about Evening snacks? 

You may have something depending on your activity level later in the evening. If you are planning for a heavy workout, even ethapazham would be okay. If you are not planning to workout, keep it light. 

Dinner? 

     Here again, slice & dice whatever suits you & pressure cook for 2 whistles. if you are lazy like me, you may skip the blender process & gobble up as is. Adding ginger & pepper would bring in interesting flavors. 


Kudambuli

     Soak kudambuli in water & drink that water. It helps in weight reduction. Note - you are not preparing fish curry. You are consuming the water as is, so tone it down a bit. (This is something I learned while talking to an ayurvedic doc for this article). 





Detox Water 

     Consume at least a liter of herb/fruit infused water. This link has interesting options - https://www.loseweightbyeating.com/detox-water-recipes-fast-weight-loss/ 
     I stick with lime, ginger, mint combo 

Triphala 

     End the day with triphala churnam. This will take care of cleansing of your stomach & the intestines. 
     This is how I consume triphala. I find this easy to swallow. 
     Mix 1tsp of triphala in one-gulpable-portion of luke warm water. The trick is to get the right amount of water. It should go down your throat in one-single-gulp! If you forget about the portion in the first try, don't worry, you will remember it the next time ;-) If you haven't ever had thriphala, you will understand this when you take it O:-) 

Beginner Yoga videos 

     Here are some links to basic yoga stretches. Will keep your body supple & flexible. You may repeat the same routine. 

     If you are already practicing Kapalbatti, this is a wonderful cleaning practice. Let the strokes be at your pace, but make sure that you practice continuously for a min at your pace. 1 min & n strokes/breaths make it 1 round. Perform 5 such rounds. Give sufficient pause between each rounds. 

     Nadi shodhana is also good. Name itself has shodhana in it ;-) Here again, repeat 5 times. 

Is this even possible? 

I will list my personal experience here. I am someone who has grown up eating non-veg. Even now, I cannot think of completely letting go of non-veg. Though the portions have come down, a complete letting go... I couldn't think of it. 

One thing that helped me was, chanting this to myself - 'Okkay... Its only this one meal that I am going veg." Small packets instead of the big package. This has worked even when I had to prepare beef at home. While preparing, I had told myself, I am going to have beef for lunch. But at lunch time, I was like... Okkay... I will eat veggies now & have beef later. 

Another thing is, you have to keep tricking your body. Never ever should you leave the stomach empty for long periods. It should be fed at regular intervals so that it doesn't feel hungry, uncontrollably hungry. My weak moment is when I get back home from office. I am a savage. I rampage the kitchen & gobble up a lot of junk. When I sensed this, I started having  butter milk/sugar cane juice/kappalandi muttai just before leaving the office. When I started doing that, I was in control when I reach home. 


The longest I have stuck with fruits & vegetables was 7 weeks. During that time, my body had toned down a lot. I had lost kgs & inches. And the icing on the cake??? No pimples during that time of the month.... Aaah! 

PS. 
This is a write up. End of story. Do not read between the line, especially with me as the center character. 

Friday, May 5, 2017

Birds of the same feather!!

"Do you have any curfew? I would like to go out, wanted to know whether you are free to accompany me. " Asks a 37yr old divorcee staying with her mom in Kerala to a 35yr old separated female staying with her mom in Kerala at 5.30 in the evening.

She : There is no curfew as such. But if I do not reach home by 6.30pm, mom will start nagging. 
Me : Yeah! I have a similar one at home. That was the reason why I asked whether you have to be home by a speculated time. 

We exchange an exasperated silence & then we laughed at the irony of things. 

As the clocked ticked... We ended up saying this to each other... 

Me : Can you step inside the house so that mom knows that I am out with a girl. 
She : Can we take a picture for me to show mom that I was indeed out with a girl. 

Aaha! 

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